| First off, Don't believe everything you hear from a potential canidate to an online relationship. Many times I've been fooled. Telling me that they are wealthy and want to take me around the work to travel. Lies, lies, lies. If someone had that much to offer why would they be looking online for a relationship. When looking for an online relationship don't e looking for someone to fly you around the owrld. There are only unkept promises behind that door.
As true as that is, you have to remind yourself that not ALL people lie. True seems as if most do
Even though you might have been lied to in the past does not mean it will happen again. You just have to be careful with your feelings and getting attached so fast. I think the friends first rule works great! Then coffee to see how things will go. THEN lunch. If you like them after that, then exchange numbers and go to dinner. But dont fall head over heals for them after dinner either take things super slow! This way you will save your feelings and heart from being broken.
Morrie is right, there are people that don't lie. In fact there are more peple than you think!
Don't believe everything you hear from a potential candidate to an online relationship or rather anything that you hear ever! I have found that I don’t trust anyone and I am my best friend as well as the person that I would share everything with. Now a days you just can’t trust anyone.
Can you tell I just went through a break up? Sure I can joke about it but I am very sad.
One of Life’s most important life lessons is DONT BELIVE EVERYTRHING YOU READ AND HEAR! It is very hard to trust these days that is why you keep your friends and family as close as you can and only worry about your loved ones and you will be fine.
I do like the friends rule first idea. Its better to get to know someone that way without all the added pressure. You are going to have enough on your mind, why add more! Gretta it will be ok! You just need time that is all.
Tell me about it. I think I have heard them all!
I had one person that wanted to take me to a new city everyday that I was alive! Come on now, all I really want is to go to a different city every 3 days! You should have known that. AAGGH!! That drives me crazy! What is so wrong with being honest and upfront? It just kills me that people feel they have to do this.
But think about it, it has to be us that is making that other person do that. If they didn’t want to impress someone so bad they really would not lie! Even though its wrong to lie maybe in certain situations (NOT the one listed above)its flattering.
I know first hand how this can hurt! Sad to say but I had a women do it to me! I was promised everything but never saw her again after her divorce to her x husband. I was there for her and she did that that is what hurts the most.
I know how it feels ladies, I have been there. I have no idea how a person can do that to someone. I could have cared less about all the outrageous promised, I just wanted her. I could never treat someone like that.
Yes! I agree with you and I am sure you will get what you want.
Good luck!
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