Looking for the bright side! : Positive Singles

[chris]

I have been single for a while and looking for that special someone. Most women that I have recently dated seem to be very pessimistic. I'm not sure if that is because they have been in a poor relationship previously or if it is because women today are raised to be such strong individuals that they don't tend to see the bright side of things anymore. Can anyone help me with this?

[CallmeDan]

You just need to find someone you click with. All women are different and are all very hard to figure out. Most women just want someone to listen to them. That is the key to there heart in some ways. Try listening and you will see. They just want to feel as if they are important.

[singlelife]

Wow Chris. I would not have treated you like that. She must be young and stupid because what you offered her is something that most men don’t offer.

Maybe she didn’t know how to react if the other people in her life treat her differently and this is the first time someone has actually taken an interest in her.