In the beginning of any relationship, there is always that anxiousness for the initial phone call after the first date. The butterflies in your stomach when that special someone holds your hand or touches you gently on the arm or leg. There is always the anticipation of seeing that special someone again, and not wanting the moment of your first kiss to end. But, unfortunately for some, this ends all too soon.
One moment your relationship is perfect and you feel as though it couldn’t get any better. But the next moment there is bitterness, blame, and anger. What happened when you weren’t looking? Is it just something that happens to all relationships once that new feeling has worn off, or are you in a troubled relationship?
There are signs that you may be in a troubled relationship. Once you recognize them, you may be able to understand what happened when you blinked and do what it takes to make the road ahead a little easier.
1. Squabbling – You never used to go to bed mad, but now you don’t even want to talk to each other. The arguments have replaced the once fun and easy flowing conversations.
2. Decreased Intimacy – At one time you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other and couldn’t wait until the next time you would be together. Now when it comes down to it, you or our partner find excuses why tonight isn’t right.
3. Less time spent together – Remember the days when you couldn’t get enough of each other? The days that it didn’t matter what you were doing, as long as you were doing it together. Now those days are far and few between. Your schedules never seem to be in sync anymore.
4. Depression – The once happy people you were together are now strangers. You go to bed crying and wake up miserable, when you once went to bed in each others arms and wanted to spend the entire day in bed...together.
5. Apprehension – Are you always asking your partner, “What’s the matter?” or “What are you thinking about?” Do you really want to know the answer? You probably already have a feeling that something is going on. Remember, a woman’s intuition is usually right.
6. Do you or your partner admit to stern faults in the relationship, but neither of you make any effort to change for the better?
When it comes to relationships, there is never a right answer, but with a little work and communication, you may be able to figure out the right answer for your troubled relationship. Think back to when things were new and try to remember what attracted you to each other in the first place. Is that attraction still there? Are the two of you still compatible, do you want the same things out of life? Is there still chemistry between the two of you? If the answer is yes to all of these questions, then it may be worth trying to salvage what is left out of your relationship.
However, if “you” have already tried to salvage your troubled relationship but your partner has nothing but disdain and disapproval for your efforts, then maybe it is time to walk away and start over. Do you stay because you think maybe if you try harder and love your partner even more, that your partner will change? Even with all of your effort, unfortunately people don’t change.
As hard as it is to walk away from someone you love, it just may be the best thing that you could do for yourself. Remember, you come first and the heart does heal.
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