There are few things more desirable than good-looking sorority girls. The attitude, the good looks, the multitude of other beautiful girls that surround them, all these things draw us unwitting men into a trance—but how do we do something about it?
Many men on a college campus live with the idea that these girls belong to a separate echelon, a layer above their layer, in sight but out of reach. Forget that idea. While some girls are always out of our reach, no matter if we’re Brad Pitt or Peewee Herman, most girls are approachable, no matter who you are or where you come from.
Now that you’re mind is opened up a bit, I’m going to give you a few pointers. Meditate on them and then give them a try, and before you know it, the greek girl you got a thing for is going to be all about you.
1 – Join a Fraternity. This one is easy and obvious, so I’ll just throw it out there. Even if you aren’t necessarily a “frat” kind of guy, give it a try. These organizations are generally not how they are stereotyped by the media. You’ll meet some good friends, also some real genuine assholes, but the best part is that these groups just serve as excuses for throwing parties and for inviting large amounts of girls to those parties. Almost any weekend a typical frat will throw a party and invite another greek girl organization over to it. This gives you lots of time and opportunity to mix in and start talking up your greek chick.
2 - Don’t join a Fraternity. Not a frat guy? Good, me neither. But we’re all right, because we don’t need to be. It’s true that things are easier in a frat, but we are by no means out of the race. The good news is that most greek girls are more than willing to date non-greek guys, they even prefer it.
3 – Flirt. All the time, with every girl around you. You need to feel comfortable talking about nothing, otherwise, once that hot greek girl is finally in front of you and says hello, you’ll dry up and not say a word. It’s ok, we’re all nervous, but you’ve got to work through it. So start jawing, and get comfortable starting conversations with total strangers.
4 – Don’t be interested. Dating a greek girl is a slow and painful game. Stage one is getting her to notice you, talk to you, and then like talking to you. Stage two is getting the lanes of communication totally open, so that you don’t feel out of place giving her a call when you’re at the bar or stopping her in the quad to say hello during lunch. But be careful! You have to pay her more attention without acting like you give a damn. If she knows you’ve got a thing for her before she has a thing for you, it’s game over. Forever.
5 – Finally, don’t be jealous when you’re jealous. What I mean is get used to seeing her flirt with 100 frat guys a day and hiding how insecure and insanely jealous you are. Greek girls, especially the really hot ones, flirt with everyone—it’s a social survival mechanism. So get over it.
If you’ve got the guts this greek girl is all yours. Just remember to never say never, keep yourself focused, and be willing to play the game.