Well I need some advice : Dating Tips

[JohnWforadvice]

really not sure how to start this off, It's kind of embarrassing but here it goes. I'm a 24 yr old guy, I really don't think I'm like OMG HOT!!!! but I don't think I'm too bad either just kind of in the middle. I'm kind of both picky and not. What I mean by that is when it comes to looks I just don't like extremes like way over weight or way under, other than that I don't care too much. I like personality. So here is the I guess bones of my topic. For the whole 24 years I haven't gotten one girl that I've liked to even give me an interested smile or such. Still haven't dated, haven't kissed, the most contact I've had is like the friendly hugs you know between friends and such. I do admit I'm a bit of a geek but I do try to keep with most of the world and such. I've been told by my female friends that what ever girl gets me will be one lucky girl, but I think I must be doing something wrong cause I can't find that girl and I'm really doubting that they meant that. I really want some good tips both how to make myself a better person to date, and what to do on date and such. To be honest I'm really scared about dating. Not cause of doing the date or such but that I don't want to mess up. So far the one person I asked out gave me the " you have to be kidding" response. I really want to make sure I make my date when and if I do have one as happy as I can. So please any advice would be great. Also if you need to know anything more to make a response just ask please.

[Dating4Fun]

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[Polina5]

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[rob8522]

You are 24 and young, you have time in hand to get in relation. Now what you are doing is thinking too hard. Don't do that, take things casually. It is not necessary that you have to be like all other guys. If you are in search of a girl with an interesting personality, then wait for some more time, you will get, because such girls are not that less in our society. But the way you are stressing yourself, is not right, and this may lead you to become extra conscious in your dating, giving a wrong impression to your date. When you will date, just tell the girl what is in your mind about your dream figure.

[robinincarolina]

Sounds like you may be stuck in the friend zone. It happens to a lot of guys. They try to approach as a friend and thats what they end up with, a friend. Females, just like males, like a bit of a challenge. We like you to be witty and make us laugh and smile. Its about your confidence level. It you are not confident, women pick up on this. That is where you need to focus. Also an attitude of you really don't care if you get the date or not is very effective. Guys have to go through a lot of rejection true, learn to handle that and not take it personally and don't stop trying because of a little rejection. There is a lot of online help for guys dating.

[nikadt]

get her out for dinner and try telling her your feelings in comical way,,if she sends positive signals ..u are on,,if no ..anyway,,u were just kidding..move on,,better luck next time

[FranX]

Hey man,
I understand...
Well, my first tip is: Learn to deal with rejection!
It's OK to be rejected. However, if you ask only one woman out
that's going to be your main story about your dating skills.

Here's a few more tips for you:

1) Talk to anybody you meet, during the day and at night. Start small, practice just opening conversation first, and gradually extent the duration of the interaction.

2) Take phone numbers. After a nice conversation with a woman, say something like this: "Hey you're kind of fun, we should continue this...how about joining me in town this Saturday afternoon...I have to by a new shirt and I need somebody with a good sense of fashion...then we can have a cup of something beautiful and a stimulating conversation...is 4.00pm good for you?"

3) Make meeting women part of your life. Forget about dinners an flowers. Women don't need you to feed them and to look after their garden...Start a hobby! do rock climbing, perform on stage, organize parties, be social. Have a great life and more and more women will want to be around you...

4) Have a purpose in your life. Have a sense of direction, go for it...that's sexy man!

Good luck!!

[dsfg_lover_001]

I understand how you feel now.Well for guys sometimes is not about the looks ,its more about the personality and body language.If you are a confidence guy ,just don`t be Argonne .All you need is go out to meet more girls and you will figure out what to do.Dont afraid of rejection,but you need to aware whats going on,and when talk to girls should try to listen what they said and make nice eye contacts.Thanks for sharing